Dear Prajapati Friends,
We hope that according to our prayers and good wishes of all, you must have fared well in all your Examinations. We also wish that God will give you success in e very thing you
do in your life. The Bible says that “commit your ways to the Lord and He will make your path straight”. When we trust God and make Him our priority He gives success. You can read the Bible to find out more about the secrets of a successful life.
The theme chosen foe this issue is “Revenge”. We usually are quick to retaliate and take revenge for any kind of wrong or hurt done to us. We think it is very natural and normal to take revenge yet we forget often that that revenge does not solve any problem, neither ease the pain, rather it complicates the situation to an extent of no amends.
Many of the hatful situations that we see around us to day is the result of taking the law into our own hands. We watch these things in the movie and media and think that this is the right norm. Yet there is some one who never retaliated when He was insulted, ridiculed and even put to death. Instead of revenge He forgave and put the hatred to an end. By doing that He may have been mistaken as a coward and weak person but in reality He won many hearts to Himself. His love is more powerful than our hatred. We are human beings and think that it is but natural to hate, and pay back tit for tat but God wants us to forgive others as He
has forgiven. He never asks us to do what He has not done Himself.
This issue is meant for those of us who burn with hatred and violence. Lets cool our hearts this summer by giving away the revengeful attitude. Truly it never solves but make us more miserable. Lets leave room for the Almighty God to take care of those who have hurt us and lets enjoy peace.
Wish you happy reading.
With lots of love,
Editor
Short Story: The Loyal Gardener
One day Akbar stumbled on a rock in his garden while taking a stroll. He was not in a
good mood already, and so this fall added to his discomfort. He got very angry and ordered for the gardener’s arrest and execution.
The next day, at the time of execution, the gardener was asked what his last wish was. He
requested for an audience with the Emperor. His wish was granted and he was brought into the Court. When he came near the throne, he loudly cleared his throat and spat at the feet of the Emperor. The Emperor demanded to know why did he do such a thing. Actually the gardener did this on Birbal’s advice, so Birbal stepped forward in the gardener’s defense. He said, “There could be no person more loyal than this unfortunate gardener. Fearing that you ordered him to be hanged for a small reason, he went out of his way to give you a genuine reason for ordering him to be hanged.”
The Emperor realized his mistake and set him free.
FUN CORNER
_ An out-of-towner accidentally drives his car into a deep ditch on the side of a country road.
Luckily a farmer happened by with his big old horse named Benny. The man asked for help and the farmer said Benny could pull his car out. So he backed Benny up and hitched him to the man’s car bumper. Then he yelled: Pull, Nellie, pull!
Benny didn’t move. Then he yelled” Come on,
Pull Ranger! Still, Benny didn’t move.
Then he yelled really loud: Now pull, Fred….
pull hard!
Benny just stood there. Then the farmer nonchalantly said: Ok, Benny… now pull.
Benny pulled the car out of the ditch. The man was very appreciative but curious.He asked the farmer: “I really appreciate that,but why did u call your horse by the wrong name three times?” The farmer replied “ old
Benny is blind. If he thought he was the only one pulling, he wouldn’t even try._ Doctor, Doctor I think I need glasses.
You certainly do, Sir, this is a fish and chip shop!
1.Q : What is height of Fashion?
Ans : Dhoti with a zip.
2.Q : What is height of Secrecy?
Ans : Offering blank visiting cards.
3.Q : What is height of Active laziness?
Ans : Asking for a lift to house while on a morning
walk.
4.Q : What is height of Craziness?
Ans : Getting a blank paper Xeroxed.
5.Q : What is height of Forgetfulness?
Ans : Seeing the mirror and trying to recollect when
you saw him / her last.
6.Q : What is height of Stupidity?
Ans : A person looking through a keyhole of a glass
door.
7.Q : What is height of Honesty?
Ans : A pregnant woman taking one and a half ticket.
8.Q : What is height of Suicide?
Ans : A dwarf jumping from the footpath on the road.
9.Q : What is height of De-hydration?
Ans : A cow giving milk powder.
10.Q : What is Height of Kanjoosi ?
Ans : Some once house has caught fire and he is
giving miss calls to the Fire.brigade.
-collected by Samson Naik
POST GRADUATE DIPLOMA IN
BANKING AND INSURANCE MANAGEMENT.(PGDBIM)
email id: samsonricky135@gmail.com.
The most selfish 1 letter
“I”
Avoid It.
Most Satisfactory 2 letters
“WE”
Use It.
Most Poisonous 3 letters
“EGO”
Kill It.
Most used 4 letters
“LOVE”
Value It.
Most Pleasing 5 letters
“SMILE”
Keep It.
Fastest Spreading 6 letters
“RUMOUR”
Ignore It.
Hard Working 7 letters
“SUCCESS”
Achieve It.
Most Enviable 8 letters
“JEALOUSY”
Distance It.
Most Essential 9 letters
“PRINCIPLE”
Have It.
Most Divine 10 Letters
“FRIENDSHIP”
(Author Unknown)
A Short Story: The Cedar Tree
In a beautiful park the cedar tree stood tall and proud. Alongside him stood the lime tree, the lemon tree and a rather elegant orange tree that had such pretty, sweet-scented blossom which, in the due season, gave forth a succulent fruit.
People came from many miles away to sit in the park and drink of its peace and quiet, and gain refreshment from its beautiful scents and sights. They used to wander amongst the trees admiring the variety of new blossoms in spring, the heavily laden branches in summer and, in the early autumn, would eat of the fruits given forth. On hot, windless days it was to the cedar tree they went to shelter under its widespread cooling branches. Each tree had something to offer the visitors.
The cedar tree listened to the people saying how beautiful he was and how wonderful it was to be able to stand there and let him give them shade, and he spread his branches even further out and stood up even more proudly, basking in their adulation. Over time, he began to resent the people looking at the other trees around him for was not he the best? His vanity grew and grew and he made himself stronger by taking only for himself the nourishment in the soil that was there for all the trees. In his vanity he became greedy. He would posture and declare, “I am better than any of you. I will get rid of you all.” He showered the lime, the lemon and the orange trees with his needles and beat his branches against them until, worn down and weakened by the lack of goodness left in the soil, they withered and died, eventually to be cut down.
The cedar preened in his solitude and laughed, knowing that everybody would now only look at him and come to him for shade. They would all admire him and see how very strong and beautiful he was. Gradually, however, people stopped coming. There was no variety left in this once beautiful park; no mingling of scents and no sight of the many-hued blossoms. There was only the old cedar tree and he really was beginning to look rather ugly, wasn’t he? He seemed over-large now, standing there without the other trees to distract the eye; almost out of place.
One night, there came a mighty storm. So great was the storm that the cedar, standing alone and without any support, swayed and bent. First one way and then the other and finally, in a massive rush of wind and with a final creak and groan that was terrible to behold, the mighty once proud cedar knew defeat and came, slowly at first and then with awful speed, crashing to the ground.
As he lay there dying he knew he had done a great wrong in wanting to stand tall and alone in the eyes of the people. He knew now that he had needed the support and protection of the other trees around him and that alone he had nor been able to stand the onslaught of the storms. In his vanity and greed he had leeched all the moisture from the surrounding land and, in the death of the surrounding trees, had lost their support from the high winds: The same winds that now buffeted against his prone trunk in full force. He grew weaker and as he lay at the mercy of the emptiness around him he himself had created, the winds laughed at his distress.
( There is strength in unity and a bonding in togetherness and mutual help. United we stand, divided we fall.)
God and Me:
Never Give Up
I have a lot of memories that God has blessed my life, and I am going to share one of them.
I was a good student in my school. The only weak subject that I was afraid was English. When I was in class 10, it was the most important time because it is the Board Exam and my marks would determine my college career. I was scoring 31/32 out of 100 in 1st and 2nd term exam in 9th class, which was not a good sign for the Board Exams. So my Dad took me to a reputed professor, who used to tutor the top scoring students. The very first day, as I was sitting with my fellow friends, sir asked me a spelling which I couldn’t answer correctly. So sir scolded me like anything, insulting me before the other students and asked me to get out of the class. I felt very bad and I cried before my father. Then my father took me to another sir, who used to teach in my neighboring school. My dad told all about me and all that has happened with me. Sir replied don’t worry; she will score first division in the final exam, which was unbelievable for me. So the tuition classes went on, there also I was ignored and looked down by some of my tuition mates, because they felt superior. When Sir used to take exam in tuition, others scored higher than me. But gradually by the Grace of God, I began to improve a little (scoring50/100). I felt offended by my friends. I prayed to God all that is happening with me and also seek his help for my final exams. So when I finally wrote my Board Exam and saw the result I could not believe at the marks I had scored. It was 73/100. Praise the Lord, since I had never had even scored the opposite i.e 37 before. I danced with joy. I told my dad and I went to my Tutor with the mark sheet. I asked sir who got the most amongst the tuition mates. Sir paused for a moment and then to my utter amazement congratulated me. I was the highest scorer in English among all my friends!!!
This is my personal experience of my God who blessed me and answered my prayers. I want to encourage those who are sacred of some subjects or any there is any other things in life which seems a hurdle, then do not ever give up. There is nothing impossible if God is with you. He can make a way for you and take you to heights that you may not have ever dreamt. So just hang on and remember “Never ever give up”. Jesus is able when you are unable.
- by Mrs. Asmita Patra, Kolkata
Asmita is now a graduate and married, residing in Kolkata.
Email ID: Chiradeep_nf@gmail.com
Forgiveness verses Revenge
Few weeks back, Good Friday was observed throughout the world. It is the supreme sacrifice of Lord Jesus who shed His sinless blood for the deliverance of the whole mankind. While Jesus Christ carried His cross to the place of crucifixion, He was beaten, ruthlessly. Perhaps He was hungry and tired almost on the verge of collapsing, because carrying the heavy cross up hill is not a joke. He must be having a splitting headache with profuse bleeding since it was pierced with a crown of thorns.
When He reached near the place, the Roman soldiers and other Jews who were against Him hurled insults at Him and then they nailed Him on the cross. Perhaps they started with the two hands and then His two foots were put together and then the big iron nails came hammering down on His bare body. Jesus cried out in pain. The sun was beating down on His face mercilessly. What should be the reaction?
Normally any one would have retaliated with vengeance, spit out curses against the person with never ending fury.
Yet, Jesus’ reaction to the situation was completely opposite. In place of anger and curses there was a statement on His lips which is stands out through the ages. The wonderful words were “Father, Forgive them for they do not know what they are doing”. This profound sentence makes Jesus unique because He not only taught about loving people inspite of but He demonstrated His love though His kind words. There was no revengeful thoughts in His heart has He hung on the cross.
This is called amazing because it is hardly possible for any human nor such event ever took place in human history other than what is mentioned above. He forgave those who hated Him and prayed for them. Instead of curse there was blessing on His lips. Isn’t that an amazing fact?________________________________
Personalities:
Sachin Ramesh Tendulkar
Sachin Ramesh Tendulkar (born April 24, 1973 in Bombay, Maharashtra, India) is an Indian cricketer who is widely regarded as one of the greatest batsmen in the history of cricket.
Tendulkar was born in a Rajapur Saraswat Brahmins family in Mumbai . His father, Ramesh Tendulkar, who was a Marathi novelist, named him after his favorite music director, Sachin Dev Burman. Tendulkar attended Sharadashram Vidyamandir (High School), where he began his cricketing career under the guidance of his coach and mentor, Ramakant Achrekar. During his school days, he attended the MRF Pace Foundation to train as a fast bowler, but the fast bowling trainer there, Dennis Lillee, suggested to him to “just focus” on his batting.
When Tendulkar was young, he would practice for hours with his coach. He would often get bored of practicing. So his coach would put a one-Rupee-coin on the top of the stumps. The bowler who dismissed Sachin would get the coin. If Sachin passed the whole session without getting dismissed, the coach would give him the coin. Sachin says today that the 13 coins he won then are his most prized possessions.
While at school, he was involved in unbroken 664-run partnership in a Harris Shield game in 1988 with friend and team mate Vinod Kambli, who also went on to represent India When he was 14 Indian batting maestro Sunil Gavaskar gave him a pair of his used ultra light pads. “It was the greatest source of encouragement for me,” he said nearly 20 years later after passing Gavaskar’s top world record of 34 Test centuries.
In 1995, Sachin Tendulkar married Anjali (born 10 November 1967), They have two children, Sara and Arjun.
In 2002, Wisden rated him as the second greatest Test batsman after Sir Donald Bradman, and the greatest One-day international batsman. He holds several highly regarded batting records and is the leading scorer of centuries in both Test cricket and one-day internationals. He is one of the three batsmen to surpass 11,000 runs in Test cricket, and the first Indian to do so. He is the most prolific run scorer in ODIs by a margin of over 4000 runs and has scored the most runs in international cricket as a whole. He crossed 16,000 runs in ODIs on February 5, 2008 while playing against Sri Lanka in Brisbane, Australia. Affectionately called ‘The Little Master’ or ‘The Master Blaster’, Tendulkar made his first-class debut for the Mumbai cricket team aged 14 and scored a century on debut. He made his international test debut in 1989 against Pakistan in Karachi at age 16.
He is the only cricketer to receive the Rajiv Gandhi Khel Ratna, India’s highest sporting honour and the only cricketer and one of the first sportsmen (along with Vishwanathan Anand) to receive the Padma Vibhushan (2008).
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WORD POWER1. Light: The brightness given by the sun, a flame, a lamp etc. that makes vision possible.
2. Light: Public knowledge, some new information
3. Light: Spiritual light
4. Light, lit, lighted, lighting: to cause, to catch fire, to cause to become bright with excitement.
5. Light: Easy to see
6. Light: Not severe
7. Light: lighty, without much luggage,
8. lighten: to make or become brighter
9. light headed: Giddy, Dizzy or delirious
10. Light hearted: Cheerful, happy, and free from care.
Golden Verse: DO not seek revenge or bear a grudge against people, but love your neighbor as yourself.
Apples of Gold: Indeed, revenge is always the pleasure of a paltry, feeble, tiny mind. By- Juvenal AD. 60
Do you Know?
ANIMAL FACTS
The blue whale is the largest animal on earth. The heart of a blue whale is as big as a car, and it’s tongue is as long as an elephant.
An Ostrich eye is bigger than it’s brain.
A Crocodile can not stick out it’s tongue.
The ant can lift 50times it’s own weight and pull 30times it’s on weight.
Polar bears are left handed.
A Cockroach can live 9 days without it’s head before it’s starves to death.
Butterflies taste with their feet.
A flea can jump 350 times it’s body length. It’s like a human jumping the length of six football fields.
Elephants are the only animals that can not jump.
A short Story: They never smiled again………
Shyam and Binu were very good friend. Shyam’s and Binu’s daddy were business men in the city. They were very close to each other until a small seed of doubt sprouted and spread its root of bitterness and hatred between them. It was so strong that they became each other’s worst enemies.
One day, Shyam’s father suffered loss in his business, due to a mistake of one of his employee. He was very upset and sacked the employee.
After some days, the employee was seen working with Binu’s father. This incident made Shyam’s father very angry and he advised Shyam not to mingle with Binu anymore because they were enemies.
Binu was surprised at Shyam’s cold behavior at school. Shyam no more invited Binu for a lift in his car while returning from school. Both were in their 12th class and were preparing for the final exams. Previously both used to study together after school but now they were no longer together. This rift was quickly noticed by others at school. Kalia was very happy to see Binu and Shyam going apart because he had never liked to see them together. So Kalia was very happy. He tried his best to create more enmity between them. Binu too became convinced that Shyam was no longer his good friend. H even felt that Shyam was competing with him for better marks in the Final exams. When Binu saw Shyam talking to his girlfriend outside the canteen he was very upset. Without a second thought, Binu went and slapped Shyam right in front of the other students. It was actually Kalia who was playing the trick between them and making them look hostile and rude to each other. Shyam was schocked because he was actually just asking for some help from Binu’s girl friend about the school magazine wheras Binu had clearly misunderstood him. Shyam did not bother to go out of the way and clarify the doubt between them either. He was now surer about Binu’s wickedness. Kalia, through his wicked remarks fanned Shyam’s hatred towards Binu.
Both of them could have sat down and talked but the pressures of studies and the vain superiority complex crept into their clean and healthy friendship. Neither Shyam nor Binu could handle this wave of hatred and revenge that was so overwhelming. It was counted as cowardice to go and short out the problem between friends. It was even demeaning to say “sorry”. Kalia said it was mark of weakness to say sorry or to even forgive a friend. People those who forgive and forget are not “real men”. Hence revenge was the only way. But Shyam and Binu did not realize that their enmity had impacted their studies and everyday life. They both had become, irritable, incapable of laughing at and enjoying the every day incidents.
Thus the rift between Shyam and Binu began to expand and one day the atom of doubt, bitterness, hatred and anger exploded.
It was the final day of exams. Shyam saw Binu riding on his new motor bike. Binu accidentally rammed into Shyam’s Mercedes. The next day was the college farewell function. As soon as Binu was seen parking his bike, Shyam came up from behind, took out his sharp pocket knife and stabbed Binu in the back. Binu did not know it was his once best friend as he fell to the ground unconscious.
Shyam felt a relief in his heart for avenging his enemy but was it really the end?
After one year in prison, Shyam became even braver to portray such skills of hatred. Kalia said it was real courage but was it courage or animalism? Shyam may look like a hero for his age but his heart was never at peace thereafter for he never could smile from his heart again……………….
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The Statue of Liberty
Liberty Enlightening the World, known more commonly as the Statue of Liberty, is a large statue that was presented to the United States by France in 1886. It tands at Liberty Island (part of New York) as a welcome to all visitors, immigrants, and returning Americans. The statue, dedicated on October 28, 1886, commemorates the centennial of the United States and is a gesture of friendship from France to America. Frédéric Auguste Bartholdi sculpted the statue. The statue is of a robed woman holding a lit flame, and is made of a sheeting of pure copper, hung on a
framework of steel (originally puddled iron) with the exception of the flame of the torch, which is coated in gold leaf (originally made of stained glass and lit
from the inside.) It stands atop a rectangular stonework pedestal with a foundation in the shape of an irregular eleven-pointed star. The statue is 151 feet tall, with
the pedestal and foundation, it is 305 feet tall. Worldwide, the Statue of Liberty is one of the most recognizable icons of the United States and more generally, represents liberty and escape from oppression. The first model, on a small scale, was built in 1870. This first statue is now in the Jardin du Luxembourg in Paris. The construction of the statue was completed in France in July 1884.
The Statue arrived in New York Harbor on June 17, 1885 by ship. To prepare
for transit, the Statue was reduced to 350 individual pieces and packed in 214
crates. The statue, which was stored for eleven months in crates waiting for its pedestal to be finished, was then re-assembled in four months’ time. On October
28, 1886, the Statue of Liberty was unveiled by President Grover Cleveland in front of thousands of spectators. The Statue of Liberty functioned as a lighthouse
from 1886 to 1902. In 1916, floodlights were placed around the base of the statue. Also in 1916, an explosion caused $100,000 worth of damage to the statue, embedding shrapnel and eventually leading to the closing of the torch to visitors. Modifications were made and President Franklin D. Roosevelt rededicated
the Statue of Liberty on its 50th anniversary (October 28, 1936).
In 1984, the Statue of Liberty was added to the list of World Heritage Sites.
In 2007, the Statue of Liberty was one of 20 finalists in a competition to name the New Seven Wonders of the World.
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Health is Wealth : Dos and Don’ts
Summer has come and we are going to enjoy the vacation and also summer would bring for us varieties of fruits like water melon, mangoes etc. At the same time we need to be very careful when we are exposed to the hot sun. Due to deforestation, pollution etc the earth is facing a big issue of Global Warming and this causes the rise in temperature
of the earth. Therefore during summer there are chances to get Heat stroke.
What is Heat Stroke and how it happens ? Prolonged exposure to heat slows down the Hypothalamus – the body heat controlling mechanism in the brain. Once the heat controlling mechanism fails, the body temperature shoots up and affects the functioning of the organs. The body sweats to lower the temperature which results in fluid loss leading to unconsciousness. Heat stroke can be fatal but can be avoided
if we remember few Dos and Don’ts in summer.
Dos
Use sunglasses, sun protection creams and umbrella while going out in the sun
Drink lots of water
Wear light colored cotton clothes
Carry a packet of glucose while going out and drink
glucose if you feel uncomfortable due to heat
Don’ts
Avoid prolonged exposure to direct sunlight
Avoid spicy food and aerated drinks
Avoid wearing tight and dark colored clothes
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A short Story: Judge yourself , not others.
Some years ago, on a hot summer day in south Florida, a little boy decided to go for a swim in the old swimming hole behind his house. In a hurry to dive into
the cool water, he ran out the back door, leaving behind shoes, socks, and shirt as he went. He flew into the water, not realizing that as he swam toward the middle of the lake, an alligator was swimming toward the shore. His father, working in the yard, saw the two as they got closer and closer together. In utter fear, he ran
toward the water, yelling to his son as loudly as he could. Hearing his voice, the little boy became alarmed and made a U-turn to swim to his father. It was too
late. Just as he reached his father, the alligator reached him. From the dock, the father grabbed his little boy by the arms just as the alligator snatched his legs. That
began an incredible tug-of-war between the two. The alligator was much stronger than the father, but the father was much too passionate to let go.
A farmer happened to drive by, heard his screams, raced from his truck, took aim and shot the alligator. Remarkably, after weeks and weeks in the hospital,
the little boy survived His legs were extremely scarred by the vicious attack of the animal. And, on his arms, were deep scratches where his father’s fingernails dug
into his flesh in his effort to hang on to the son he loved. The newspaper reporter who interviewed the boy after the trauma, asked if he would show him his scars.
The boy lifted his pant legs. And then, with obvious pride, he said to the reporter, “But look at my arms. I have great scars on my arms, too. I have them because
my Dad wouldn’t let go.”
You and I can identify with that little boy. We have scars, too. No, not from an alligator, but the scars of a painful past. Some of those scars are unsightly and have caused us deep regret. But some wounds, my friend, are because God has refused to let you go. In the midst of your struggle, He’s been there holding on to you.
The Scripture teaches that God loves you. You are a child of God. He wants to protect you and provide for you in every way. But sometimes we foolishly wade
into dangerous situations, not knowing what lies ahead. The swimming hole of life is filled with peril - and we forget that the enemy is waiting to attack. That’s when
the tug-of-war begins - and if you have the scars of His love on your arms, be very, very grateful. He did not and will not ever let you go. Never judge another person’s scars, because you don’t know how they got them.
By Mr. Geotge Edward
Works as a Missionary in
Friends Missionary Prayer Band,
Chennai
Abbreviation
AMU : Aligarh Muslim University
PLO : Palestinian Liberation Organi
zation
VP : Vidhan Parishad
GATT : General Agreement on Tariffs and
Trade
DMK : Dravida Maunetra Kazhagam
BPCL : Bharat Petroleum Corporation
Limited
CJ : Chief Justice
KFC : Kentucky Fried Chicken
Word Power
1. Light : The brightness given by
the sun, a flame, a lamp
etc. that makes vision
possible.
2. Light : Public knowledge, some
new information
3. Light : Spiritual light
4. Light, lit, lighted, lighting : to cause, to catch fire, to
cause to become bright
with excitement.
5. Light : Easy to see
6. Light : Not severe
7. Light : lighty, without much
luggage,
8. lighten : to make or become
brighter
9. light headed : Giddy, Dizzy or delirious
10. Light hearted : Cheerful, happy, and free
from care.
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Attention Parent
Doctors are noticing a sharp rise in
aggressive behavior even among kids who are
barely 2yrs old. In fact the problem has its
root in their toys and in parental behavior.
In a group of 20, at least 7 to 8 kids are
displaying aggressive behavior these days say
Montessori houses. The hottest favorites
among kids are guns of different kinds, WWF
figures, remote controlled robots, and of
course video games that fight thieves,
dinosaurs and serpents. These toys evoke
aggressive behaviors among kids.
So parents be careful while buying the toys
for your kids next time.
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Olympic Facts:
The early Olympic games were celebrated from 776BC until 393AD, then it was banned
for being a pagan festival. In 1894, a French educator Baron Pierre de Coubertin, proposed a revival of the ancient tradition, and thus the modern day Olympic Games were born. The five Olympic rings represent the five major regions of the world – Africa, the Americas, Asia, Europe and Oceana, and every national flag in the world includes one of the five colours, which are from (left to right) blue, yellow, black, green and red.
Few facts of Olympic 2008 : The Olympic torch was lit on the 24th March at Olympia, Greece. The Olympic Torch is based on traditional scrolls and uses a traditional Chinese design known as “Lucky Cloud”. It is made from aluminum. The torch is designed to remain lit in 65 kilometre per hour winds, and in rain of up to 50 millimetres per hour. An ignition key is used to ignite and extinguish the flame. The torch is fueled by cans of
propane. Each can will light the torch for 15 minutes. It is designed by a team from Lenovo Group.
The 2008 Olympic Torch Relay will run until August 8, 2008, prior to the Games of the XXIX Olympiad at Beijing, China. The relay, with the theme ‘Journey of Harmony’, is
expected to last 130 days and carries the torch 137,000 kms— the longest distance of any Olympic torch relay. There have also been few controversies for the Olympic 2008. Baichung Bhutia, the foot ball player declined to carry the Olympic torch in support of Tibetans. The Tibetan protestors have tried to snuff out the torch in many places. However all are anxiously waiting for the 8th August to watch the grand opening ceremony of Olympic 2008 at Beijing, how about you ???
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Youth Cornor :
Peer Pressure
Peers are the children or youth of same age. Age-mates who provide a supportive network for the children, or youth are called Peer-group. The
influence of the Peer group that pressurizes or influences a child or a youth to behave in a certain way is called Peer Pressure. Peers and friends play
important roles for the normal development of a child or youth. When youth grow older, they face challenges in making decisions. Some are not clear about a right or wrong answer and decisions that involve moral values. Making decisions on our own is hard but when pressurized by the peer group the decision-making can be even harder. It is always important for a youth to carefully choose his/her peers and be aware of the pressures that can lead
them astray. Peer pressure can be both negative and positive and can be discerned though ones’ own value system. For example if a youth has proper values of right and wrong, then he/she can easily determine the negative peer pressure and avoid it or allow the positive Peer pressure to influence. Therefore our own value system is vital but often we find it difficult to say ‘No’ to a negative Peer pressure. Here are few guidelines that can help us in school and college to be firm with our convictions and steer out of trouble. They are as follows:
1. Be strong in Decision-Making: It is always important to make decisions according to your value system. Listen to your conscience. Never take decisions with excitement or emotion. Lean not on your own understanding but prayerfully wait on the Lord while taking decisions.
2. Listen to advice: In the Bible, the wise king Soloman ‘Hear instruction, and be wise, and refuse it not.’ ‘Hear counsel, and receive instruction, that you may be wise in your ways.’ Proverbs 4:1 says, ‘Hear, children, the
instruction of a father, and attend to know understanding.’ So never despise the instructions or advice of an elder.
3. Confide everything with one of the family members:
The Bible says ‘Two are better than one; (because they have a good reward for their labour.’) ‘And if one prevail against him, two shall withstand him; and a threefold cord is not quickly broken.’ So it is always better to confide
with someone before taking any steps, so that he/she can advise you or help you when you are in trouble.
4. Learn to say ‘NO’:
The wise king says, ‘Cease, my son, to hear the instruction that
causeth to err from the words of knowledge.’ Yes, saying “NO” can affect your friendship, but if you are on the right path, you can always
win back your friendship. Rather being wrongly influenced can cause greater permanent harm to your life.
5. Stay away: As it is written in the Holy Book ‘Flee youthful lusts.’ Many times it is difficult to say ‘NO’ therefore, fleeing away or staying away from the situation is the BEST idea. The Bible also says, ‘be not wise in your own eyes: fear the LORD, and depart from evil.’ You might become a laughing stock for saying “NO” and “Staying away” but it is up to you to choose because ultimately good and success depends on right decisions.
“Studies indicate that the youth with strong family ties tend to rely less on Peers and more on family members for advice and guidance; those without strong family ties tend to rely more heavily on Peers to provide self-esteem. ”So, young friends! Keeping relationship with family members can be very helpful and you will not be lonely and vulnerable while taking decisions.
Please involve them in your life. Remember! The decisions that you make will ascertain your later life. Therefore, BE WISE!
—by Mr. Chiradeep Patra
is happily married to Asmita and
is working in a Christian NGO
called National Fellowship.
He can be contacted at :
chiradeep.nf@gmail.com;
share_your_problems@hotmail.com;
Visit: www.thecandles.wordpress.com;
www.candlesmagazine.blogspot.com
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“Be strong and very courageous. Be obedient, do
not turn to the right or to the left that you may be
successful wherever you go”.
- The Bible
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